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« #75 : June 08, 2005, 06:58:22 PM »

Some age gaps are ok but others arent, it all depends on the people
for example i am 18 and i really fancy a 16 year old, yet a 15 year old work experience student at my work fancies me,
i would happily go out with the 16 year old as she acts older than she is plus she is 'legal' yet i wouldnt with the 15 year old as she doesnt act it at all and is still under the age of consent


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« #76 : June 25, 2005, 09:17:45 PM »

Yeah, I know what you mean, Kamui.. I've been out with a 15 yr old and I was 17.. He was more mature than others thought. And yeah I loved him.. But I've also been with a 21 year old and that SO didn't work out, because of the way he was, so immature and pathetic and slimy.

As long as you really like the person, it's all that matters. I mean, if you barely like them, what's the point? But anyway, age doesn't matter. It's just a number.
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« #77 : June 27, 2005, 06:10:43 PM »

The after-effects of love suck, cos I was in love with someone 18 months ago and he walked away... now I would like to set a snarling dog on him should I see him again... ::) 

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« #78 : July 06, 2005, 03:48:31 AM »

Lol. I bet you would. That's what I would do.
That's what I would've done like a year ago. But that's not me, really. I just forgive those who hurt me. Or whatever.

I really really like a guy whose much older than me, and all my friends have said if I love him that's all that matter's,
he said he loves me, and he does. But it's way too complicated. Plus there's a lot of distance.. :dry: Gah, my love life
is always complicated  ::) Dangit.
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« #79 : July 27, 2005, 12:04:32 AM »

I think age gap relationships can be a good thing sometimes.  If the people fall in love it shouldn't matter, love has no boundries.  I mean if a teenager falls in love with a 30 year old, people shouln't care.  If it's for love then people shouln't care ;).  If it's for money or something then yeah, I care, but if it's for love then nobody should interfear with it, people should actually fell happy that the found each other ;).



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« #80 : July 27, 2005, 06:12:50 AM »

my cousin is in an age gap relationship, she is 16 and her boyfriend is 22..her father isnt to happy woth it but they seem to love each other...my friends mom and stepdad are 11 years apart and fight constantly but still

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« #81 : July 28, 2005, 07:05:23 PM »

I think age gap relationships can work. As long as your happy with eachother and get along then it'd be fine.
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« #82 : July 30, 2005, 04:46:56 AM »

I am with a 16 year old  ::)

Have been for errrr.....10 months...

Say what you wish people  ::) :P

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« #83 : July 30, 2005, 05:19:51 PM »

::) *Won't say anything*  :P

So have I.  Age doesn't matter. Should not matter. It's the relationship that counts. Not the age. The real value of the relationship is whether you connect, you get on. Nothing else. Age is just a number. I am with a sixteen year old aswell. But I don't care about age. Never have, whether I get on with the person is what matter's most.
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« #84 : October 06, 2005, 06:58:34 PM »

i've bin in a few age gap relation ships, ???   :[
i didnt really see the big deal at the time.. im 18 and was going out with a 15yr old (nearyl 16), but we loved each other :wub: . her friends made my life hell, i got h8 mail, and even arrested 4stuff tha accused me of doin. she testified in court. then all that crap stopped..

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« #85 : October 06, 2005, 07:03:37 PM »

 :8o wow i don't remeber the court thing lol. *pats Gav on the shoulder* the drinks arrest was funny! lol

I seem to have a past of everyone bein younger than me!  :dry: when i say that i mean by a couple of years or maybe more! However i'm currently advoiding the situation as many people see it as very wrong
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« #86 : October 06, 2005, 07:04:05 PM »

thats the most recent 1 anyway

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« #87 : October 06, 2005, 07:25:49 PM »

I suppose just as long as people are careful and look after each other then its a good thing. However i feel that it can sometimes bring people down.

For the older person they might have that feeling that they are just not getting anywhere or they are hassled with this younger person being around (say for example a 17 and a 15 yr old, the 15yr old would be in school and the 17yr old could see them either immature or incapable of decision makings)

For the younger person they could take it too seriously and have far too much faith in this one person. And when they get a little older and start making decisions they could see, in their eyes, that the older person could have been/is much more successfull than they are now or will be. Finally young people (as in below 16) have far too much on their side e.g. law. But they don't seem to care about this because they know they will get away scott free in the end.

Sorry for babbling and i've had far too much experience on this matter to know what to think about it. I'm not saying that it is all bad, i've enjoyed all relationships i've had with people until the moment ended, but just that everyone should be careful about age gaps for younger people.

Hope all who is in relationships do well too :) 8)
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« #88 : October 07, 2005, 04:43:53 AM »

I am now in the opposite situation than I was when I started this topic  ::)

I am now 23 and my bf is 19, I guess it's only 4 years and we haven't had any hassle about it (although I haven't met his mother yet  :-\ )

I think the only thing that could get in the way is our different stages of readiness for commitment............



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« #89 : October 08, 2005, 03:02:09 AM »

Age does not matter.. Feelings do.. As long as u have the abilty 2 make the decision its no-one elses business

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