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« #45 : March 23, 2005, 09:38:42 PM »

I'm not bothered about age gaps! I met my current b/f when I was 15 and he was 21. No-one really had a problem with it. I'm nearly 18 and my b/fs nearly 24.
I think another factor is how old you are 15 and 21 sounds bad but when i'm 20 he'll be 26 and that doesn't sound as bad.

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« #46 : March 24, 2005, 12:32:44 PM »

I'm not bothered about age gaps! I met my current b/f when I was 15 and he was 21. No-one really had a problem with it. I'm nearly 18 and my b/fs nearly 24.
I think another factor is how old you are 15 and 21 sounds bad but when i'm 20 he'll be 26 and that doesn't sound as bad.

oh yeah!!! 20 and 26 sounds so good! the most important thing is that you're happy together...
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« #47 : March 24, 2005, 02:19:36 PM »

How does 23 and 40 sound?
I'll be 23 in July and my bf's 40 in September  ;D

But as he said, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. It's between the 2 of us and as long as we love each other that's all that matters.  :wub:



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« #48 : March 24, 2005, 02:50:58 PM »

as I said before, Elfy, I'm very happy for you and with you. I couldn't handle such a big difference, but if it's ok with you both then thing are as they should be.
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« #49 : March 24, 2005, 05:08:13 PM »

But as he said, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. It's between the 2 of us and as long as we love each other that's all that matters.  :wub:

Exactly, he's exactly right, who cares what anyone says as long as you are happy with it, then it doesnt matter!

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« #50 : March 28, 2005, 02:18:36 PM »

i don't really see why some people have a problem with age-gap relationships....it's the same as any other relationship....personally i wouldn't have a problem if i went out with an older guy....say a 41 year old man for example... *cough* johnny depp *cough*  ;D

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« #51 : March 28, 2005, 04:21:03 PM »

I think it's more of a thing about an older man apparently being some sort of pervert...........I know me and my bf have had some funny looks, cos although I'm 22 I look a few years younger. But as long as both parties in the relationship are adults, it doesn't make a difference.



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« #52 : March 30, 2005, 05:26:59 AM »

It's all down to the people in the relationship.  I mean....I'm 19 yeah?  I wouldn't ever go out with anyone who was 5 years older than me, or 2 years younger than me.  I just feel uncomfortable...you know with maturity and immaturity.

I admit, I am still very young at heart.  I don't feel 19 (coming on 20).  I feel like I'm 17 or something, with extra responsibilities chucked on me at the same time.  I want to be with a guy who is of a similar age, so hopefully we have similar interests.  I mean, my main interest is music, and I hope to god that the next guy I meet has the same music taste as me (EMO KID!!!!!) :D

If both people are mature (or immature...), then it's up to them.  Of course, a 14 year old and a 40 year old...that's a bit wrong because there won't be very much maturity on the 14 year olds side, and the 40 year old would probably be a pervert.

So yeah...age is just a number and a number is nothing.
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« #53 : March 30, 2005, 11:19:02 AM »

well i got married when i was only 16 and still at school and my husband was 29 and that was quite a big gap especially with me being so young. anyway we divorced when i was 17 i just wasn't ready for marraige.

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« #54 : April 12, 2005, 02:14:01 AM »

I personally think you should be aloud to love whoever it is and age shouldn't play a factor in it  ;).  If your 20 and fall in love with a person thats 70, who cares, as long as you love each other.



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« #55 : April 17, 2005, 07:03:59 PM »

I agree completely.... as long as you're in the relationship for all the right reasons (love, etc) and not for alternative motives (gold-digging, peadophilia) then what is the problem.... people just have the problem with age gap relationships because there are some cases where there are alternative motives.... which is just daft to base all age gap relationships on those select few

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« #56 : April 17, 2005, 08:05:51 PM »

Yeah, I mean, if you feel it's right, then go for it. All the relationships I've been in, they've either been older or younger.
My current relationship is a year younger. And he's so sweet and caring, but it's early day's, the oldest relationship I've had is when the guy was 23. But he used me.
I'm used to the man/boy being younger. And me being younger or older. I don't know why but I prefer being younger than the guy, but the guy has to be like 2 or 3 year's, not 6.

Age shouldn't matter, and to me it doesn't. It's just a number on a piece of paper.
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« #57 : April 17, 2005, 08:08:08 PM »

I'm glad that you're in a relationship that's good for you. No matter if he's younger or older...
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« #58 : April 17, 2005, 08:48:04 PM »

Thankyou Morganne. Yeah, well, I've only been in love once or twice. And I think I've met the one already, but we'll see I guess. I feel so much more positive than I did a week ago.
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« #59 : April 19, 2005, 05:31:46 PM »

It's all down to the people in the relationship.  I mean....I'm 19 yeah?  I wouldn't ever go out with anyone who was 5 years older than me, or 2 years younger than me.  I just feel uncomfortable...you know with maturity and immaturity.

I admit, I am still very young at heart.  I don't feel 19 (coming on 20).  I feel like I'm 17 or something, with extra responsibilities chucked on me at the same time.  I want to be with a guy who is of a similar age, so hopefully we have similar interests.  I mean, my main interest is music, and I hope to god that the next guy I meet has the same music taste as me (EMO KID!!!!!) :D

If both people are mature (or immature...), then it's up to them.  Of course, a 14 year old and a 40 year old...that's a bit wrong because there won't be very much maturity on the 14 year olds side, and the 40 year old would probably be a pervert.

So yeah...age is just a number and a number is nothing.

i agree with ya :)
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