In the last few days there have been a few of these crop up here...
I would like to remind members of the following:
Although we are very much sympathetic with ppls sorrows and worries, we are none of us trained counsellors, so please keep this off the boards and contact your friends via IM
This topic might also be useful to you
http://www.ageofthering.com/forum/index.php?topic=24859.0