Age gap relationships

[spikealott]

No matter how much difference there is in age, and i mean, if there was 50 years, it wouldn't make any difference, as love is still the strongest thing in this world.

[Elfy]

Awww Spikie you're so right *hugs*
If its true, genuine love, then nothing is a barrier.

[Lady Arwen]

so many people think like that, yet so many people let age get in the way of their happiness and that of those whom they love...

[Humiliated]

Age shouldn't matter. To me it's just a number. Just a number on a piece of paper. I don't care whether the guy is older or younger than me at all. It's the personality and the relationship between you both that matters.

[Lady Arwen]

and I agree, as I agree with tearing down all obstacles that stand in the way of true love. too bad there are still people who are so against their children, for instance, going out with someone a little older...

[Humiliated]

Yeah, I've been out with a guy who was 4 years older than me. And a guy ( not at the same time ) about 2 year's younger. I still loved them alot. When I was with them. Their age didn't worry or matter to me.

[Lady Arwen]

that kind of a difference is totally acceptable (let me tell you a secret: most guys grow up slower than girls, so if the guy was biologically four years older, that meant he was mentally kinda your age!!!)

[Humiliated]

Yeah, he definately was mentally my age. Fricking used me  Anyways, I'm much happier now  Totally over him and everything  But I do totally agree, guys do grow up slower.. 

[Lady Arwen]

good. is your love life happy as it was when we last spoke?

[Humiliated]

Yeah.. Blissfully happy  How about you? *Hugs*

I believe that relationships should be based on friendship, because you get to know eachother and age shouldn't matter... Look at Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas! 

[Elfy]

My sister thinks its hilarious to compare me and my bf to Catherine ZJ and Michael Douglas   

Age does matter to me a way, in that I would not go out with a man my age. I've been there, done it, got the broken heart and I'm not going to make the same mistake again. Older men are much more mature, they know what they want and they keep their brains in the right place.

[Pippy]

My sister is 15 and she is going out with someone who is 22
I am 18 going out with someone who is 15 nearly 16
My mum is a year older than my dad
My nan was 15 years younger than my grandad
My other nan was 10 years younger than my other grandad

I dont really mind it. As long as it isnt like a 14 year old going with a like 30 summat..that just scary. But I think when your out of school and around 18-19 the age gap thing dont really matter

[Humiliated]

Yeah, I totally agree with you there, Pippy. As long as it's not something like, a 30 year old going out with a 14 year old. Then I think that's fine. 30 year old with a 14 year old.. I'm sorry but that's wrong, one is twice as old as the other and besides, what would they have in common?

[x~x..cheese+beef..x~x]

older guys are so much more mature.....not tooo old mind u...once went out with a dood who was younger than me....not going there again!.....but i am a sweet 16 year old girl....maybe older men won't be so appealing later on in my life ....but yeah....age gaps shouldn't be a problem....it's just that in a lot of age gap relationships there are alternative motives rather than just the love they feel and what have you...for example...gold digger...cradle snatcher...pedofilia hee hee chammon!

[Lady Arwen]

maybe the idea will seem appealing to you later in life too. you too will get more mature and you'll want someone who can keep up with your spiritual and emotional development. and that soemone may well be an older guy. You'll choose him not because it's kool to date someone older, but because it's annoying to date someone your age or even younger.

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